RDS: make message size limit compliant with spec

RDS: make message size limit compliant with spec

[ Upstream commit f9fb69adb6c7acca60977a4db5a5f95b8e66c041 ]

RDS support max message size as 1M but the code doesn't check this
in all cases. Patch fixes it for RDMA & non-RDMA and RDS MR size
and its enforced irrespective of underlying transport.

Signed-off-by: Avinash Repaka <avinash.repaka@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Santosh Shilimkar <santosh.shilimkar@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <alexander.levin@verizon.com>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>